I got my glow plug / harness form AliExpress, this store.
https://peakmodel.aliexpress.com/store/5569111?spm=a2g0o.order_list.0.0.5fd61802wH3t9o
They make 2 sizes to fit glow plug stem diameters properly, what they call red & black as per description attached. The color just corresponds to their own size designation, the contact spring inside the brass fitting is what mates to the plug stem. I bought some of each to test, they fit both style of plugs as advertised very well & provide good electrical conductivity. Black fits my OS-F plugs perfect. Yesterday I snipped off the heat shrink & can see the wire is butt soldered axially to the brass cup. But it is possible to turn the wire more at 90-deg & apply replacement heat shrink so it sits that way & looks a bit more like a spark plug boot. I have not run these yet but I don't expect problems with vibration. They could also be shop made now that I see them, but for the price & fiddling around, just as easy to buy.
I'm working on my glow ignition box now so hopefully will get caught up on my (Ohrndorf 5-cyl) build post & report back how this worked out.