Okay---I think I got lucky. I had to go out of town for a few hours today, so I took the squeeze bolt out of the brass lap and wedged it open with screwdriver, right on center to avoid any taper, and left it wedged open for about 4 hours. When I came home, I took the screwdriver out, and the lap didn't close back up a lot. It is now a snug sliding fit over the piston. I realize that it is probably going to be somewhat of a line contact with the piston now, but the first few minutes spent with lapping compound should knock down the external micro-ridges on the piston and the internal micro ridges on the lap, which are a result of machining, and bring things back to round. The piston and arbor will be turning in the lathe at a slow rpm, and I will hold the lap in my hand. As soon as things loosen up a little, I will use the squeeze bolt to bring the lap back to round.