Like Dan said! But you can bet your boots that the solder is carefully selected- there are many different flavours from the classic 60/40 tinman's solder to the domestic plumbing stuff which is 99% tin, with the remainder of copper - and everything in between.
I watched the video, and it's hardly surprising there was an explosion, firing a boiler like that with a propane/butane torch like that! Toy engines are spirit fired, which is far more gentle. That doesn't mean they are bulletproof; schools in the UK used to have at least one Mamod to allow physics teachers to demonstrate the principles. A few years ago a teacher was killed, and students injured when one blew. Should have checked the safety valve.
Full sized engines, like locos, have a "fusible plug" of lead positioned in the crown of the firebox, so if the water level becomes too low the lead melts, the steam pressure is relieved and the fire is extinguished. needless to say that dropping a plug is a source of unspeakable shame for any driver.
That plug has flames licking around it for the whole rest of the time, and is safe.
But I digress. To summarise, for low pressure boilers, in order of integrity-
Fully soft soldered (with an appropriate solder)
Fully soft soldered, with stays.
Fully soft soldered with rivets.
Fully soft soldered with rivets and stays (we're going over the top now- kinda depends on the size)
All the of the above using silver solder instead. More expensive, but it won't break the bank. The boiler won't blow your b*ll*cks off as easily, which might only happen once, and after which, silver solder would seem to be downright bloody cheap.
-Andrew UK