Good Morning, Gents!
'Mrs. Tin" here.
Tin told me a bit about this thread, and left it open for me to read for myself (as he was desperately trying to get out the door to work; you'd think it was a MONDAY morning!
).
As some of you know, I travel to many of the shows with Tin, and even exhibit a couple of engines I (mostly - with a bit of help
) created. Many of the questions you shared have come our way over the years. It's kinda fun, being a woman exhibiter, with a pink engine no less, and actually being able to answer - honestly, and kindly, of course. When Tin gets started, he'll take them from the most basic, through the more complicated, explaining as he goes, and showing them several done in Lucite for just that reason. Our display has become very much a 'teaching station' - both for those who know nothing (which I can actually help with), and for those needing advise for some steps in the processes (Tin's really good at this!).
DaveH - I'd be pretty surprised if these other gents throw fun-intentioned comments out, without following with more rational explanations. (Back me up on this, will you, Gents? :-\). For myself, I wouldn't use the word 'stupid' - even though that's how it might feel to US (who know). But many, as Tin commented, are 'innocently ignorant'. And, as another put it (forgive me for not going back to give proper credit), the average person is so steeped in 'things', and what they're 'good for', that they do sometimes have to be educated about building engines just for the fun of it. Our kids/grandkids are so caught up in 'virtual' games, the real thing all too often eludes them. One of our great delights is when a younger person suddenly gets excited about MAKING something - and tugs dad/granddad away from our table to go home and DO it!!
Have to agree with Tin; I think the forum members are blowing off a little steam between themselves, and not intending to demean anyone. Neither do I think they would intentionally speak unkindly to anyone in person - with the exception of that museum dude, who was incredibly presumptuous!!!!!
I wouldn't WANT to see this thread closed, as I've gotten some chuckles out of it myself! :big:
As to your being a 'grumpy old man' - nonsense! While I do believe the gents are just having a wee bit of fun with the questioners, if anyone IS actually, seriously being over-the-top in their comments to the uninitiated, they'll perhaps hesitate some the next time, because of your input. We all need to remember to think before we speak, and with 'age' should come wisdom - and respect is due. :bow:
Praying you have a GREAT DAY!!
"Mrs. Tin"
DaveH - Just caught your laugh at Tin's 'blowing off steam'. Funny, I MISSED the pun in that - and Tin may have, too! Sounds like you've already mellowed on this, and I'm glad!!