Unfortunately, your not talking to the manufacture, but a sales clerk. They have no technical knowledge.
I have one of those Hungwang VFDs I purchased from eBay 5 years ago. They had to replace the first one. The problem with them is they cheapened the quality of the components, mainly the capacitors, as that was the failure I experienced, and what I see from the various negative complaints. I think I paid $115, and it sits on the shelf, as I got a used namebrand for the same price. I have 8 machines now powered with VFDs (all dedicated to each machine). Most are TECO, but two Hitachi, one WEG. I do not purchased used VFDs, unless I can find the manual online, and get a pdf copy. Rockwell automation (was Allen Bradly) is one such brand I've never found manuals for.
I believe they (Vantrend) have made a model that is capable of single phase input. The AliExpress and eBay pages do not have any dimensions for the unit. The size of the 3 phase input unit vs this one "custom" designed for single phase input would be a deciding comparison, as you've found the filter is huge.
I know that I would trust this machine to do what the sellers are showing it was designed for. I would purchase through eBay and connected it immediately and verify operation of the lathe, so if there is failure, you have eBay's money back guarantee.
If you can get the dimensions and validate in your mind this has the filter size needed for single phase operation, that may give the "warm fuzzy".
So I looked up eBays "not as described" return policy, and found this;
A buyer must request a return no later than 30 days after the actual (or latest estimated) delivery date, or, if the seller's return window is longer, within the return window
The cost of return shipping for an item that is not as described is the seller's responsibility, same is true for any custom duty or other fees.
So you have 30 days of test time from date of receipt to complaint through eBay's system. I've never failed to get a refund when their system is used. I've purchased many items from China, I've learned the only items not to buy are HSS endmills. I never received, any endmill that passed my rockwell hardness test. They are all soft as butter (HSS=Rc >64, non were harder then 25, some less then 4, but I bought cheap, don't even try it if SWT brand). I tried to get metric size endmills, still don't have any. I've had good luck with ceramic tooling, boring bars both indexed and brazed, R8 spindle tooling has been good.
Do you have any tooling and large scrap to turn and face and prove the converter will perform to your satisfaction? Your only out your time if this fails early and purchased from eBay.