All you have to do is make her something, like a hammer or mine's plastic rollers went out in the dish washer so I made 4 bronze one and got her ready to wash in an hour, I have 12 lathes, she is not happy with 12 but they do get over it, we were talking in the drive way the other day and she said no more lathes please, she said what I do if something happened to you, I told her sell them, Lady drive up lives close by and said I need some help, I have a lathe in the shop on a 16 foot trailer that my husband bought he stared taking it apart then admitted it to much work and not sure how it goes back together, she said if you come get it I will give it to you, "My Wife" spoke up quickly and said he will take it ???????? I followed the Lady home opened the shop there is sat on a trailer with four flat ties and it was a 21 inch South Bend with a 14 bed, ever attachment you could buy for a lathe is there, most still in the originally boxes, several chucks, I got it home it took two tractors with forks go life it, then pulled the trailer out, I am at present still taking it apart, cleaning all the pieces, prime, paint, when the bed it done back together we go, so have patience with her and she will let you play and we are out of there way.