Just a word of caution, "A Joe, I am" (Please correct me if I misunderstand your name?). As you are is the US of A, the boiler you purchase or make MUST comply with ASME Boiler regulations. I recommend you buy a back-copy of Live Steam and outdoor railroading, Nov/Dec 2006, Volume 40 no. 6. This has an excellent article about boiler design and manufacture, and the ASME regulations and what you must do and not do, to comply with regulations. e.g. if you buy a boiler from (say) the UK, or otherwise from outside the US, you need a certificate of compliance to ASME, or some other declaration from the seller, that your insurance will accept, otherwise the insurance will wriggle-out of any payment, in the event of any claim following a failure. (That is, if you want to be covered by insurance).
But for "public display" - which could even qualify as you showing your brother's kids, or the bloke next door - you must be insured...
Joining a club, may entitle you to being covered by the club's insurance for public display, while within their premises, and as certified by their "techinical appointed person". (Which is what I do).
Any second-hand boiler is classed as "uncertified" and must be certified as if it is new. I.E. a set of calculations for the various tubes, end-plates, stays etc. A full visual examination for corrosion, scaling, or "poor soldering" or other poor design or workmanship. An hydraulic test to prove the design, a steam test to prove the safety valve and gauge performance, etc. etc. against the specified firing method at "maximum fire". And confirmation of the boiler water feed pumps (minimum 2) in their final installation and operation (allows for engine driven pumps, axle pumps, electric or steam pumps and hand pumps. etc.).
As a native, you'll know better than I what the Federal laws can do....
I have been looking at all the different rules and regs, and I think that complying with ASME will cover almost everyone else's requirements, but just complying with another country's regs may not meet ASME. e.g. ASME uses a very technical way of defining the hydraulic test pressure, which can be higher than other counties' requirements. Also ASME limits silver-soldered-copper-boilers" to 100psi. And ASME has no scope for exceptions.
But don't be daunted by ASME, it is no different from understanding what you can and can't do when driving. Buying a boiler in the US should "automatically" get you ASME approval, if from a "proper" boiler making company/distributor.
I hope this helps answer some of you question #21?
I can provide some odd papers I have written to help others decide "what boiler?", "what burner?", etc... Just let me know exactly what you need and I'll dig out something suitable?
Enjoy,
K2