You are exactly correct on your soldering technique. I was taught to "throw the heat to it" and not screw around when soldering electrical connections. Like you, I mainly use a chisel point tip for maximum heat transfer.
One of my better tool investments was when I bought a Weller WES51 soldering station with active heat control. Power switch, temp knob and LED lamp for the UI. Continuous LED display for iron warm-up, blinky LED display for at-temp and LED off for cool down. It takes about half a minute to reach temp from cold.
Active soldering irons like the WES51 are really nice when working with the thick wire used with these high current connectors as they automatically ramp-up the heating element power as needed to maintain tip temperature and therefore quickly heat the solder joint.
Quality crimp connectors like the PowerPoles work great but it can be expensive to tool-up with the crimper and the connectors themselves usually aren't cheap. You can buy knock-offs of the popular connectors, but more often than not they suck. Case in point, for "regular" crimp connections like spade or ring I use the nice 3M crimps with the heatshrink insulators. Just bought a cheap assortment of these connectors thinking by now they gotten good are knocking them off, but, nope, they are still much inferior.